Episode #16: Your Confidence & Style Questions Answered!

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Do you have to be fearless to achieve your dreams?

I used to think that only fearless people could pursue their dreams. Whenever I saw others accomplishing incredible things, I believed they had some secret knowledge or special powers that I didn't possess. Fear became my excuse, keeping me stuck and stagnant. But guess what? You don't have to be fearless to chase your dreams. It's totally normal to feel terrified when stepping out of your comfort zone. The key is to take action despite the fear. As you gain experience, that fear gradually subsides. So, don't let fear hold you back from going after what you truly desire.

Do you have to love yourself before you can love somebody else?

Loving yourself is a journey, and it's okay if you're still on that path while being in a relationship. You don't have to wait until you've reached a state of complete self-love before loving someone else. Think about it, you already love others in your life, right? You've experienced love and know what it feels like. However, relying solely on your partner for love is not healthy. It's not fair to place the responsibility of loving you entirely on someone else. Avoid that pressure and dependency. As long as you're working on self-love and not seeking validation solely from your partner, you can love and be loved while continuing to grow in loving yourself.

Why is confidence the key to success?

Confidence is like the secret to your success journey. When you genuinely believe in yourself, everything becomes easier. Confidence empowers you to face your fears, embrace your emotions, and handle rejection like a pro. With an unshakable sense of self-assurance, you become your own cheerleader, ready to lift yourself up and treat yourself with kindness. That's why confidence is so important—it helps you develop a deeper love, respect, and trust in yourself. And trust me, that's a game-changer!

Why is gratitude important to achieving your dreams?

I have to admit, gratitude wasn't always my cup of tea. Writing down a list of things to be grateful for felt forced and distant. But then, something clicked. I learned to appreciate and feel genuine gratitude for who I am and what I've already accomplished. It's about cherishing and accepting the present moment. When you're genuinely excited and grateful for where you are and what you've achieved, it becomes easier to tackle new challenges and achieve even more in the future. So, let gratitude be your fuel on the path to your dreams!

How do you start celebrating your accomplishments?

Celebrating your accomplishments is a must on your journey to self-confidence. Take a moment to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, big or small. It doesn't have to be a grand affair. Maybe you jot them down in a notes app or have a group text with your friends to share and celebrate each win. The point is to pause and give yourself credit. By celebrating your accomplishments, you'll boost your confidence and create a positive self-image that propels you forward.

XO,

Ellie Curry